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In 1998 John started studying Hellinger Family Constellations /
Trans-Generational Healing in The Netherlands, where he lived for 11 years. Since then he has worked with Gabrielle Borkan, Bertold Ulsamer, Drindy Keller, Ursula Franke and Bert Hellinger.
John has become one of the first non-psychotherapists to be accredited by the Bert Hellinger Institute (IAG) in Germany to practice this deeply transformative work. Coupled with his empathic abilities and keen interest in ancestral work, John has become one of the most skilful and respected practitioners of Family Constellation work in the world, having run over 160 workshops on
five continents, blending psychotherapeutic process, soul healing and echoes of shamanism into his work.
John brings to this work unbridled compassion, keen insight and a finely tuned skill
to deal with the most challenging situations that individuals and couple can face. John is regular guest on South African television and radio and is an established and acknowledged public speaker in that country. His involvement in the peace and reconciliation process in South Africa has given him the ability to assist others worldwide to move into spaces of acceptance and forgiveness around the darkest moments of their and their
family's lives.
John's unshakable compassion and commitment to truth has brought this work into the realm of the Soul, using The Language of the Soul in order to bring about resolution.
International
John Payne has facilitated workshops in San Diego, New York City, Germany, India, Croatia, the Caribbean, San
Francisco, Cape Town, Norway and Johannesburg. He welcomes invitations worldwide.
Please contact him directly if you would like John to visit your area.
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If you want to get to the core, the seed of the issues you are experiencing, and if you want to heal them, then try the Family Constellation experience. It is amazingly simple yet abundantly profound. The experience of the workshop is mostly indescribable, but I can tell you that the end result is a feeling of lightness and peace. I would also like to say that I'm not so sure the experience of the workshop would have been as enjoyable if John Payne was not the facilitator. His humour, experience and willingness to guide us all to our truth makes the workshop a much fuller experience.
J.S. - North Carolina
May 2007
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Family constellation work with John Payne is the most efficient and effective form of energy healing that I have ever experienced. As a hospice grief
counsellor, creative arts therapist and energy worker myself, I am no stranger to the damage of trauma and unresolved grief on individuals, families, and communities. The potential for healing human tragedy on a massive scale is here in this work, so ably and eloquently brought forward by Mr. Payne.
M. Zamierowski, MPS
New York, Feb 2007
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Family Constellation work has been a turning point in my life. The work cuts to the chase and has produced a healing effect also on other members of my family. John Payne facilitates with empathy and clarity.
Sam Weber, Writer
Johannesburg, South Africa
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As a tool for personal growth and healing, Family Constellations impressed me with the relative simplicity of the technique, yet profound insights it affords. John L. Payne's highly experienced facilitation of this process is characterized by a blend of great clarity and genuine compassion.
Richard Higgins - Transpersonal Numerologist
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Dear Amelia,
Since you are sponsoring John Payne for a workshop in San Diego in a few weeks, I thought I’d tell you about the amazing experience I had with him and 15 other people this past weekend. Feel free to pass it along if you think others would be interested to hear about it.
As you know, I was scheduled to go to Denver this weekend and I even got as far as Charlotte, NC but missed my connecting flight. Six-and-a-half hours later, through the most amazing sequence of events, I wound up at John’s trans-generational healing/family constellations workshop in Manhattan. I’ve done just about every form of healing process possible: talk therapy, energy healing, massage, acupuncture, core
energetics, beating pillows, spiritual workshops, intuitive counselling, journaling, meditation, prayer and much more. Each of these modalities serves a purpose, but the work I did this weekend brought me to a completely new understanding of myself by helping to tie my sometimes vague/hidden emotions and current life situation into tangible
events in my family’s history. Upon acknowledging these events, John then took me through a process of resolving my role (and sometimes lack of legitimate role) in my family’s history. The net effect to me is that through the clarity of understanding my family history I can consciously decouple or release myself from it and make new choices that work for my greatest good.
I found John to be very gentle and direct at the same time. He has a great gift for getting right to the heart of any situation and he delivers necessary information with honesty and integrity. What really struck me was John’s
“egolessness”. He was there to be of service to us, not for his own ego gratification.
This may sound pretty abstract, so let me give you some mechanics about what happened in our workshop and therefore what you might expect in your workshop, although I’m sure each workshop has its own flavor and circumstances. John touched briefly on the work that he does and laid down a few ground rules to ensure the integrity of the process and safety of participants. We were assembled in a semi-circle around the room and each of us would volunteer to work with John one-on-one when we were ready. John asked what we wanted to work on and about our family of origin. He would then focus on some aspect of our family lineage and we’d be instructed to select other workshop individuals to represent a few key family members. We would then place these “family members”, including a surrogate for ourselves, in a configuration that felt right to us in the center of the room. We would then sit back down and observe the family dynamic that would unfold. Amazingly, each individual would take on the emotions and feelings of their assigned person. It sounds so odd, but the process bore this out each and every time.
John’s intuitive sense would help to laser-focus on what was needed for the individual’s healing. He’d ask questions of each “family member” and occasionally bring in additional participants to be part of the constellation. Ultimately he would bring back in the person whose family this was and he’d guide him/her through a healing process with his/her family. Each and every constellation became an opportunity for everyone’s healing too. The act of participating in the constellations helps us to heal those aspects in ourselves as well. It really is an incredibly efficient form of healing unlike anything I have ever experienced!
John makes sure that we take plenty of breaks to clear out the energies and let people decompress/integrate. I thought I would be a lot more tired at the end of each day, but found myself invigorated.
I hope this gets you excited for your workshop!
Love,
Kathleen McBride
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John Payne's Family Constellation Workshop is a phenomenal exercise of intuitive representational processing. It provides the participants the opportunity to review relationships in a very non-threatening atmosphere and yet allow incredible healing to take place at the soul level. Whether you are looking for closure, insight, understanding, release, or all of the above, this workshop provides the venue in a loving and supportive way.
Everyone and anyone can benefit from this workshop.
Nan Seedman, PhD, DCH, DAH, President &
CEO,
International Network for Alternative & Intuitive
Therapies, Inc.
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I have spent the last 20 years searching for answers to a number of issues relating to my childhood and present marriage, including family therapy, hypnotherapy, and several alternative healing practices. After participating in two Family Constellations workshops, I have experienced profound results and am finding myself able to move on with my life. John has an uncanny ability to guide the Constellations with clarity and vision, in an atmosphere of total love and support, that provides rapid and powerful
healing.
Sarah Tamblyn, Berkeley, California
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For those drawn to this healer, John Payne, the method of Family Constellations it works in a profound and emotionally powerful, therefore liberating way, to enlighten the unawareness and enliven the true spirit of Life in each
individual.
Thank you John.
Tricia Altenau, St. Martin, Guadaloupe
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